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六孩蓝领父亲:从无家可归做到公司老板
阿基姆与阿什利夫妇以及他们的6个孩子。图片来源:courtesy of ASHLEY GRIFFIN/Girl Boss Branded

阿基姆・斯特吉斯年仅33岁,但言谈间却透着历经沧桑的智慧。在最近一次采访中,他正给一岁的女儿换尿布,听到《财富》记者的提问时,他打断对方,温和地提醒道:“深呼吸,慢一点。该做的事终究会做完,不用急。”

这种沉稳自持、乐于开导、助人成长的本能,已成为斯特吉斯的鲜明特质。作为6个孩子的父亲,同时也是佛罗里达州杰克逊维尔市一家杂工与暖通空调(HVAC)服务公司的创始人,过去5年里,他从无家可归的困境一步步走出,实现了人生中首个“年入10万美元”的里程碑。他表示,自己之所以能做到这一点,完全靠的是信念、导师的帮助,以及一份坚定的认知:蓝领行业的成功依然能够为千禧一代和Z世代美国人带来他们在其他领域所追寻的那种自由。此外,他还必须突破那些在他看来本不该存在的文化壁垒,而这些壁垒一直阻碍着像他这样的人获得成功。

他说:“作为一个国家,我们在培养孩子适应生活方面做得很不够,以前学校里还有木工课。”在他看来,自己的职业道路之所以走得如此艰难,原因在于公立教育体系中缺乏实践技能培训。

他说:“人们总指望18岁的孩子在高中毕业后就会做出‘上大学’这种影响一生的永久性决定。一个18岁的年轻人,根本没有足够的心智能力为余生做这样的决定。”

令斯特吉斯感到困扰的并非只有精神层面的事。2020年,与疫情期间的众多美国人一样,他失去了在捷迈邦美(Zimmer-Biomet)公司担任颞下颌关节制造师的工作,经济状况急转直下。他变得无家可归,只能带着妻子和5个孩子辗转于酒店、爱彼迎(Airbnb)民宿和朋友家之间。

斯特吉斯说:“那真的是极其艰难的一年……能让一家人待在一起并乐观地熬过困境,真的太不容易了” 。

他此前从未想过进入蓝领行业,但自己的动手能力一直很强。后来,他找到了美国住宅建筑商协会(Home Builders Institute)—— 该机构为退伍军人子女(他的父亲曾在海军服役)提供专项培训项目。他先是报名参加了木工课程,之后又学习了暖通空调维修。起初只是小打小闹,后来获得了导师指导,如今他已拥有自己的公司,今年的营收有望突破10万美元。

从无家可归到自主创业

在HBI学习期间,斯特吉斯从基础活做起:组装家具、修理漏水的水龙头,同时还在一家仓库上10小时的夜班。他说:“有段时间,我通宵工作10小时,早上7点下班,8点就打理自己的生意,再干8到10小时,然后回家睡觉,第二天又重复同样的节奏。”

短短几个月内,他通过了家得宝(Home Depot)的“专业之路”项目,并获得了稳定的工作,这是一个集蓝领技能培训与就业匹配于一体的项目。他还运用在HBI学到的技能,将业务从简单的杂工维修拓展到更多领域。

然而,真正的转折点出现在2024年。当时他回到HBI完成暖通空调课程,遇到了导师史蒂文・“史蒂夫老爹”・埃弗里特(Steven “Papa Steve” Everitt)。“他真的给我买了一辆卡车,” 斯特吉斯回忆道,“那辆车花了800美元……比起卡车钱,他更关心的是我能否获得成功。”

他表示,这份导师情谊彻底改变了他的人生。“在他的帮助下,我整个人焕然一新,从外形开始 —— 我剪了头发,穿着也更得体了。他发掘出了我自己都没意识到的潜力。”

同年,斯特吉斯获得了HBI的“主席奖”,还赢得了一次免费的拉斯维加斯之旅。如今,他的公司即将迎来首个“年入 10 万美元”的节点 —— 这个里程碑在他以前看来是遥不可及的梦想。

斯特吉斯向《财富》杂志透露,现行教育体系既没有教授人们如何应对经济现实,也没有宣传有哪些机会适合像他这样的蓝领工作者,这让他感到失望。他说:“不是每个人都能成为历史学家,不是每个人都能当医生,也不是每个人都能做律师。”蓝领行业不应被污名化,因为这个领域里满是高智商人才,只是他们使用的大脑区域与白领工作者不同罢了。他还表示,“有些人就是喜欢用双手工作。”

斯特吉斯认为,美国可以通过增加职业教育资金投入和针对性激励措施来缓解蓝领人才短缺问题。他还表示,希望政府能为蓝领行业的小企业主提供更多补助金和可免除贷款,这些资金能帮助他们扩大业务规模、培训学徒,从而填补每年数十万的职位空缺。

他说:“我们应该以此来填补缺口。通过授人以渔,让人们创造自己的事业。”

不过,他认为很多年轻人陷入了一种误区,认为四年制大学学位才是成功的唯一途径:他们背负了巨额债务,然而最终拿到的认证却并不受停滞劳动力市场的青睐。此外,还有些人沉迷于“快速致富”的骗局,轻则参与体育博彩或追逐泡沫化的创业热潮,重则涉足黑市等违法领域。

斯特吉斯说:“我们这一代人满脑子都在想如何积累财富,人们想过上好的物质生活。”不过他认为,从事蓝领行业亦可以做到这一点。

斯特吉斯表示,在Z世代对“赚钱职业”的认知中,暖通空调、管道维修、电气维修等蓝领行业“排在最底端”。然而,美国目前正面临蓝领技能人才短缺日益加剧的问题,激进的驱逐出境政策以及人工智能热潮带来的需求激增,更是让这一问题雪上加霜。

斯特吉斯说:“机器人不会盖房子。” 其观点与多位《财富》500 强企业高管不谋而合。例如,英伟达(Nvidia)首席执行官黄仁勋曾表示,他认为随着数据中心产业的爆发式增长,未来很快将需要数十万电工。福特(Ford)首席执行官吉姆・法利最近也透露,他的儿子去年夏天做过机械师工作,如今公开质疑自己是否需要上大学。

斯特吉斯认为,如果学校能让Z世代认识到:蓝领行业是通往独立的途径,而非 “老一辈的退路”,就会有更多年轻人选择这个领域。他解释道,当你告诉年轻一代,在蓝领行业工作几年就能赚到近六位数的收入时,他们的“兴趣就会被激发出来”。

“然后他们会说,‘等等,你的意思是,我靠干些体力活就能赚这么多钱?’没错,就是这样,” 斯特吉斯说。

“这一路上充满了试错,有无数个漫长的日夜,也需要付出无数的血汗与泪水,” 他说,“但只要你能克服情绪的阻碍,熬过那些低谷,一切就会变得容易。当你登顶俯瞰来路时,自然就能一览众山小。”(*)

译者:冯丰

审校:夏林

阿基姆・斯特吉斯年仅33岁,但言谈间却透着历经沧桑的智慧。在最近一次采访中,他正给一岁的女儿换尿布,听到《财富》记者的提问时,他打断对方,温和地提醒道:“深呼吸,慢一点。该做的事终究会做完,不用急。”

这种沉稳自持、乐于开导、助人成长的本能,已成为斯特吉斯的鲜明特质。作为6个孩子的父亲,同时也是佛罗里达州杰克逊维尔市一家杂工与暖通空调(HVAC)服务公司的创始人,过去5年里,他从无家可归的困境一步步走出,实现了人生中首个“年入10万美元”的里程碑。他表示,自己之所以能做到这一点,完全靠的是信念、导师的帮助,以及一份坚定的认知:蓝领行业的成功依然能够为千禧一代和Z世代美国人带来他们在其他领域所追寻的那种自由。此外,他还必须突破那些在他看来本不该存在的文化壁垒,而这些壁垒一直阻碍着像他这样的人获得成功。

他说:“作为一个国家,我们在培养孩子适应生活方面做得很不够,以前学校里还有木工课。”在他看来,自己的职业道路之所以走得如此艰难,原因在于公立教育体系中缺乏实践技能培训。

他说:“人们总指望18岁的孩子在高中毕业后就会做出‘上大学’这种影响一生的永久性决定。一个18岁的年轻人,根本没有足够的心智能力为余生做这样的决定。”

令斯特吉斯感到困扰的并非只有精神层面的事。2020年,与疫情期间的众多美国人一样,他失去了在捷迈邦美(Zimmer-Biomet)公司担任颞下颌关节制造师的工作,经济状况急转直下。他变得无家可归,只能带着妻子和5个孩子辗转于酒店、爱彼迎(Airbnb)民宿和朋友家之间。

斯特吉斯说:“那真的是极其艰难的一年……能让一家人待在一起并乐观地熬过困境,真的太不容易了” 。

他此前从未想过进入蓝领行业,但自己的动手能力一直很强。后来,他找到了美国住宅建筑商协会(Home Builders Institute)—— 该机构为退伍军人子女(他的父亲曾在海军服役)提供专项培训项目。他先是报名参加了木工课程,之后又学习了暖通空调维修。起初只是小打小闹,后来获得了导师指导,如今他已拥有自己的公司,今年的营收有望突破10万美元。

从无家可归到自主创业

在HBI学习期间,斯特吉斯从基础活做起:组装家具、修理漏水的水龙头,同时还在一家仓库上10小时的夜班。他说:“有段时间,我通宵工作10小时,早上7点下班,8点就打理自己的生意,再干8到10小时,然后回家睡觉,第二天又重复同样的节奏。”

短短几个月内,他通过了家得宝(Home Depot)的“专业之路”项目,并获得了稳定的工作,这是一个集蓝领技能培训与就业匹配于一体的项目。他还运用在HBI学到的技能,将业务从简单的杂工维修拓展到更多领域。

然而,真正的转折点出现在2024年。当时他回到HBI完成暖通空调课程,遇到了导师史蒂文・“史蒂夫老爹”・埃弗里特(Steven “Papa Steve” Everitt)。“他真的给我买了一辆卡车,” 斯特吉斯回忆道,“那辆车花了800美元……比起卡车钱,他更关心的是我能否获得成功。”

他表示,这份导师情谊彻底改变了他的人生。“在他的帮助下,我整个人焕然一新,从外形开始 —— 我剪了头发,穿着也更得体了。他发掘出了我自己都没意识到的潜力。”

同年,斯特吉斯获得了HBI的“主席奖”,还赢得了一次免费的拉斯维加斯之旅。如今,他的公司即将迎来首个“年入 10 万美元”的节点 —— 这个里程碑在他以前看来是遥不可及的梦想。

斯特吉斯向《财富》杂志透露,现行教育体系既没有教授人们如何应对经济现实,也没有宣传有哪些机会适合像他这样的蓝领工作者,这让他感到失望。他说:“不是每个人都能成为历史学家,不是每个人都能当医生,也不是每个人都能做律师。”蓝领行业不应被污名化,因为这个领域里满是高智商人才,只是他们使用的大脑区域与白领工作者不同罢了。他还表示,“有些人就是喜欢用双手工作。”

斯特吉斯认为,美国可以通过增加职业教育资金投入和针对性激励措施来缓解蓝领人才短缺问题。他还表示,希望政府能为蓝领行业的小企业主提供更多补助金和可免除贷款,这些资金能帮助他们扩大业务规模、培训学徒,从而填补每年数十万的职位空缺。

他说:“我们应该以此来填补缺口。通过授人以渔,让人们创造自己的事业。”

不过,他认为很多年轻人陷入了一种误区,认为四年制大学学位才是成功的唯一途径:他们背负了巨额债务,然而最终拿到的认证却并不受停滞劳动力市场的青睐。此外,还有些人沉迷于“快速致富”的骗局,轻则参与体育博彩或追逐泡沫化的创业热潮,重则涉足黑市等违法领域。

斯特吉斯说:“我们这一代人满脑子都在想如何积累财富,人们想过上好的物质生活。”不过他认为,从事蓝领行业亦可以做到这一点。

斯特吉斯表示,在Z世代对“赚钱职业”的认知中,暖通空调、管道维修、电气维修等蓝领行业“排在最底端”。然而,美国目前正面临蓝领技能人才短缺日益加剧的问题,激进的驱逐出境政策以及人工智能热潮带来的需求激增,更是让这一问题雪上加霜。

斯特吉斯说:“机器人不会盖房子。” 其观点与多位《财富》500 强企业高管不谋而合。例如,英伟达(Nvidia)首席执行官黄仁勋曾表示,他认为随着数据中心产业的爆发式增长,未来很快将需要数十万电工。福特(Ford)首席执行官吉姆・法利最近也透露,他的儿子去年夏天做过机械师工作,如今公开质疑自己是否需要上大学。

斯特吉斯认为,如果学校能让Z世代认识到:蓝领行业是通往独立的途径,而非 “老一辈的退路”,就会有更多年轻人选择这个领域。他解释道,当你告诉年轻一代,在蓝领行业工作几年就能赚到近六位数的收入时,他们的“兴趣就会被激发出来”。

“然后他们会说,‘等等,你的意思是,我靠干些体力活就能赚这么多钱?’没错,就是这样,” 斯特吉斯说。

“这一路上充满了试错,有无数个漫长的日夜,也需要付出无数的血汗与泪水,” 他说,“但只要你能克服情绪的阻碍,熬过那些低谷,一切就会变得容易。当你登顶俯瞰来路时,自然就能一览众山小。”(*)

译者:冯丰

审校:夏林

Arkeem Sturgis is only 33 years old, but he speaks with the wisdom of someone who has lived many lives. Midway through a recent interview, as he was changing the diaper of his one-year-old daughter, he stopped this Fortune reporter’s question to offer a gentle correction:“Breathe,” he said. “Slow down. You’re gonna get everything that you need to get done. You’re not in a rush.”

That instinct—to steady, to teach, to pull others up with him—has become Sturgis’ hallmark. A father of six and founder of a Jacksonville, Florida-based handyman and HVAC business, he’s spent the past five years rebuilding from homelessness to his first $100,000 year. And he’s done it, he says, through faith, mentorship, and the conviction that success in the trades can still offer the kind of freedom millennials and Gen Z Americans are chasing elsewhere. He’s also had to overcome what he sees as unnecessary cultural barriers to success for someone like him.

“We as a country have done a poor job equipping our children for life,” he said. “We used to have [wood]shop in schools.” In his view, he had to struggle to reach this point in his career because of a lack of hands-on training in public education.

“We expect children at the age of 18 to graduate high school and make a permanent decision in our lives by going to college,” he said. “An 18-year-old does not have the mental capacity to make a permanent decision for the rest of their lives.”

Sturgis’ struggle was not just an emotional one. In 2020, like many Americans during the pandemic, he was laid off from his job as a TMJ fabricator at Zimmer-Biomet and his economic situation spiraled. He became homeless, shuttling his wife and five children between hotels, Airbnbs, and friends’ homes.

“It was a really, really, really rough year … keeping my family together and smiling through that entire process was a lot,” Sturgis said.

He had never considered the trades, but he was always good at his hands. He found the Home Builders Institute (HBI), which provided a special program for children of veterans (his father served in the Navy) and enrolled in its carpentry program and later in HVAC. It started small but led to mentorship and now a business where Sturgis is his own boss and on track to make $100,000 in revenue this year.

From homelessness to entrepreneurship

Sturgis started small at HBI, assembling furniture and fixing leaky faucets, while working 10-hour night shifts at a warehouse. “At one point I was working 10 hours overnight, getting off at seven in the morning, clocking into my business at eight o’clock, and working another eight to 10 hours,” he said. “Then going to sleep and doing it again.”

Within months, he was earning steady work through Home Depot’s Path to Pro program, a trades skills and job matching program, and using the skills he learned at HBI to expand beyond handyman repairs.

The real turning point, however, came in 2024, when he returned to complete HBI’s HVAC course and met his instructor, Steven “Papa Steve” Everitt. “He literally bought me a truck,” Sturgis recalled. “The truck was $800 … and he cared more about me succeeding than he cared about the money he paid for that truck.”

The mentorship, he said, was life-changing. “He helped me change everything from the way I looked—I cut my hair, I started dressing better. He pulled something out of me that I didn’t see in myself.”

That year, Sturgis won HBI’s Chairman’s Award and an all-expenses-paid trip to Las Vegas. His business is now on track for its first $100,000 year, a milestone that once felt unimaginable.

Sturgis tells Fortune that he’s frustrated by how the system fails to prepare people for the realities of the economy, and doesn’t advertise the opportunities out there for workers like him. “Everybody’s not going to be a historian, everybody’s not going to be a doctor, everybody’s not going to be a lawyer,” he said. Working in the trades shouldn’t have a stigma, he said, because it’s full of people with high IQs, they’re just using a different part of their brain than a white-collar job. “Some people,” he added, “want to work with their hands.”

Sturgis said he believes the U.S. could help fix the shortage with more vocational funding and targeted incentives. He also said he wants to see more grants and forgivable loans for small-business owners in the trades, funding that could help them scale, train apprentices, and fill the hundreds of thousands of open jobs left vacant each year.

”That’s how we fill the gap,” he said. “By giving people the tools to build something of their own.”

But many young people, he argued, are trapped in the belief that a four-year degree is the only path to success: taking on mountains of debt for credentials that a stalled labor market spits out. Others, he said, chase “get-rich-quick” schemes: the softer versions through sports betting or frothy startup fads, and the darker ones through the black market.

“Our generation is 100% focused on wealth building,” Sturgis said. “Our generation likes nice things.” He argued that you can still have these things through a life in the trades.

The trades—HVAC, plumbing, electrical work—sit “at the bottom of the totem pole” in how Gen Z thinks about wealth, Sturgis said. Yet, the U.S. faces a deepening labor shortage in skilled work, made worse by aggressive deportation efforts and a surge in demand from the AI boom.

“Robots can’t build houses,” Sturgis said, aligning with comments from some of the top leaders in the Fortune 500. For instance, Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang has also said he believes we’ll soon need hundreds of thousands of electricians to man the explosive data center boom, while Ford CEO Jim Farley recently revealed that his son worked as a mechanic last summer and is openly questioning whether he needs to go to college.

Sturgis said he believes that if schools could empower Gen Z to see the trades as a path to independence—rather than a fallback for “old men”—more would pursue it. When you explain to the younger generation that one can make close to six figures in just a few years of work in the trades, it “piques their interest,” he explained.

“And they’re like, ‘Wait a minute. So you mean to tell me, I can get my hands dirty and I can make that much money?’ Yes, you can,” Sturgis said.

“It’s been a lot of trial and error, a lot of long days, a lot of blood, sweat, and tears,” he said. “But if you can manage to push past your feelings and the valleys, it gets easier. You look back down the mountain and realize how far you’ve come.”

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